Tag: enabling

• Is It Bullying Or An Excuse?

  

  When do we stop calling it bullying and look at it for what it really is?

  Niccole

  August 25, 2022

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  breakup, breakups, bullying, circles, community, concern, county, dad, dating, drama, enabling, family, Florida, forgiveness, friends, friendship, goals, heartbreak, horror story, hurt, hurting, independence, kids, letting go, mental, mom, parent, parenting, perseverance, public school, relationships, sad, saving yourself, self help, single, sorry, St. John’s schools, stalker, stalking, strength, superintendent, teachers, value

• The saddest of goodbyes…

  

  This weekend was absolutely heartbreaking. The time came for me to make the decision to let my dog, Cooper go. He has been overly aggressive for a few years, but that was mostly all directed at my ex-boyfriend when we would fight. If I ever raised my voice, or if he sensed me getting stressed, […]

  Niccole

  July 27, 2022

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  breakup, codependent, death, dog, enabling, family, grief, grieving, heartbreak, hurt, hurting, letting go, loss, love, perseverance, pets, puppy, single, strength

• We Hurt Because We Hurt

  

  Because of something personal this past week, I felt that this week’s post would be best taken from something discussed in a chapter in my book… It is okay to feel hurt. It is okay to let it all out. But it is not ok to hurt others because you are hurting. If you need […]

  Niccole

  June 19, 2022

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  codependent, community, enabling, forgiveness, friends, friendship, goals, hurt, hurting, independence, letting go, love, perseverance, saving yourself, self help, sorry, strength, value

• When Do You Start Saving Yourself?

  

  At what point in life do you stop being everyone else’s hero, and be your own?

  Niccole

  June 12, 2022

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  addicts, breakup, codependent, enabling, goals, independence, letting go, perseverance, saving yourself, self help, strength, value