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The Great Wall of Niccole
How big are the walls around your heart? When was the last time you let your guard down and let anyone in?
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Is It Bullying Or An Excuse?
When do we stop calling it bullying and look at it for what it really is?
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Parallel Lives
Growing up, my siblings and I always seemed to favor going to my mom’s parents’ home, more than my dad’s parents’. I guess it was because my paternal grandparents (Grandma and Grandpa) seemed more stern, and kids were more or less seen and not heard when at their house. Whereas, my mom’s side of the […]
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A Good Dose of Vitamin Sea
After weeks and weeks of planning, the time was finally here for our family vacation. This year, I decided to take my four younger kids to the US Virgin Islands. None of them had ever been on a plane before, much less out of the States, so this was big for them…and for me. Last […]
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The saddest of goodbyes…
This weekend was absolutely heartbreaking. The time came for me to make the decision to let my dog, Cooper go. He has been overly aggressive for a few years, but that was mostly all directed at my ex-boyfriend when we would fight. If I ever raised my voice, or if he sensed me getting stressed, […]
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Move on Already
A major reason for writing my book and starting this blog, was to help me move on from the past by telling my truth, releasing it out into the universe, and letting go once and for all. I hoped that the book and this blog would both help others, and both grow to be some […]
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Dear Diary…What a great weekend!
Actually…it has been a great past two weekends. Both filled with fun, friends and family…three out of five of my favorite F words. And of course…lots of MUSIC! Last Friday night was spent with my oldest daughter at the New Kids On The Block Mixed Tape Tour concert event. She had bought me these tickets […]
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Driving Ms. Crazy
Ever been so consumed by daily schedules and family calendars that you could just lose it? As a single mom of six, you can imagine how many times I’ve been on the verge of insanity over the years. For me, my life is comprised of getting up each morning and ensuring my youngest gets out […]
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Oh The Horror….
When I first hopped onto the online dating scene many moons ago, my profile must have seemed like a short novel. I included every detail about me, and even outlined what I was looking for and what I didn’t want. Yet somehow, that never seemed to sink in with 99 % of the guys that […]
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We Hurt Because We Hurt
Because of something personal this past week, I felt that this week’s post would be best taken from something discussed in a chapter in my book… It is okay to feel hurt. It is okay to let it all out. But it is not ok to hurt others because you are hurting. If you need […]
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When Do You Start Saving Yourself?
At what point in life do you stop being everyone else’s hero, and be your own?
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Strength in Circles
In engineering, they say that triangles are the strongest of all shapes. But in humanity, it is our circles that give us strength. It is our community. We were created to be in a community and be surrounded by others. To help one another. Seek one another. Guide one another. Love one another. Too often, […]
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Let The Music Set You Free…
From my dad taking me to see my uncle play as a baby, to listening to my dad’s record collection and eventually starting my own as a kid…music has always lived within me and been a major part of my being. I’ve never had the talent to play an instrument or carry a tune, but […]
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Life After The Release…
Release day came and went. The book is out and website is launched. People have actually been visiting this website regularly and purchasing the book. Yay! I am one step closer to fulfilling my goal of helping others…thanks to all of you readers, subscribers, and friends. Yet, why haven’t I been as elated as I […]
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But, is there?
They say there’s someone out there for each of us. But, is there? Today was one of those days when everything was going fine and everyone (including me) was in a good mood. We spent the afternoon finalizing details for my daughter’s wedding, and how can you not be happy making wedding plans, right? Except […]
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The Be Word
On the periodic table, Be stands for Beryllium. Beryllium is a strong yet brittle earth metal. Strong yet brittle…doesn’t that describe most of us? Yet as a woman, if you’re perceived as strong…you’re often categorized as a bitch. If you appear brittle…you’re categorized as weak and vulnerable. Some of us spend a lot of time […]
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The Island of Sin and Scars
I have never been one to go sit in a restaurant and eat by myself, or go to a bar alone to meet people. Unless I’ve had a couple glasses of wine or a stiff drink, chances of getting me to open up and be a Chatty Cathy are quite slim. But I want to […]
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